When we are on the threshold of something new–whether it’s a new year, a new job, a new relationship, or any other new endeavor–there are three questions I have found to be very useful for sorting myself out. These three questions help me be interested in, available for, and reflective about understanding where I currently am, what’s next, and how I can be current with the me that’s here now. These questions address who’s present now rather than the old version of me or the me in the future I’m about to step into.